my boyfriend has a reputation of cheating on girls. so when we started dating I always knew there was a possibility he was cheating on me. so when I found out he really was, I didn't really get that mad. I did brake up with him though. however, he's begging me to take him back. I want to, but what type of example am I setting for myself? what do I do?
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Personally I would say no, because if you did you will always be saying that its acceptable for a guy to treat you like this. Also you have to think about the trust, he has broken the trust in the relationship, can you get that trust back after what he did? Will you always be watching over your back expecting it to happen again, can you live in a relationship like that? They are things you have to think about, but the main point is you are young TRUST me their are lots of other guys out their who will not treat you like this. The best payback for what he did is to go on and be happy. Do you really want to waste time on someone who will treat you like that and miss opportunities for a better relationship. Its always better to end a relationship with a guy wanting you back than the other way around. Also your well pretty you can do better than this guy! i1