Short version: one drunken night-stand led us to being friends, then eventually sex buddies. we never talked about what it was, our feelings, etc. 4 months after this "fling", i told him i had feelings. he did not return those feelings -- then he got angry bec i called him a player. my friend also warned the girl he was talking to -- he was just angry w me for it.
the first time i told him i had feelings, we ended it. then we talked again, he found out i told people he's a player, we ended it again. he eventually forgave me. all of this was in a span of 9 months. one day, i knew this wasn't going somewhere. we werent even close and all we talked about is sex. we had sex more than a couple of times, but i moved away and he remained in touch with me. a lot of snapchats there and here, since i moved here. i was starting to feel he was using me for company, for stroking his ego, for giving him attention. he knew i liked him and he probably felt safe with me bec he thought i was not goin anywhere.
one day, i was fed up. i decided to ignore him for a while, thinking he would get the hint and move on. i did not think he cared. but he did contact me and asked me why i was quiet? i did not answer. he asked again. finally i told him im done. i was tired of feeling just a sex object to him. he was like fine u need more from me, whatever peace out. im like no this is not about me needing more from you, i lost interest thats all it is. he said "you cld have said that, makes things easier" -- that was it. i ended it (the third time) thinking he did not give a flying f***. the next thing i knew, he deleted me off social media. this surprised me -- so guys, why do you think he deleted me off if he acted like he had no problems with me losing interest in him? does this mean he actually had feelings for me all along? pls, help me understand a guy's mind
Most Helpful Guy
That's what I'm doing now. I got dumped, tried to be friends but it was preventing me from getting over her, soooo I havnt spoken to her for 1 month. I feel guilty because I know she cares about me & she still offered friendship. But this is the only way I can move on. Its not easy because its actually making me think more about her, but I have to do this because I know she doesn't want me in her life romantically. Its the hardest thing I've ever had to do letting go of someone just so I can move on. I feel I will always have feelings for her even in 10 years time.0
Most Helpful Girl
He deleted/unfriend you in order to make it easier for him0