My first serious girlfriend is someone I can never forget, I was an complete ass to her. She was always good to me despite me being an ass to her. We lasted for 3 years and when the relationship ended it was difficult not to contact her even though I was the one who left her... our relationship ended 4 years ago.
Anyway, I am now engaged to another, I do love her and care for her and she's a nice person.
Last week, I ended up bumping into my ex, she completely blew me away with how beautiful she has gotten (she was beautiful when we were together but even more so now). I suggested having a coffee to catch up, when she agreed she smiled and it made me melt... I dunno it's like all my feelings came rushing to the surface. During the catch up it was so hard not to say "I miss you" or "I love you" or even to confess that I haven't stopped thinking about her since the day I last saw her. I was meaning to tell her I was engaged but all I hear is a voice in my head saying I'm too afraid that if I told her I would lose out on us having a second chance.
Everything about her awes at me, I have fallen in love with her all over again.
After a lot of thinking I have realised that all these feelings I have towards my ex I have never felt for my fiancee... I don't feel that there's anything left for us anymore.
She is a nice person and I do care for her but I just can't be with her anymore.
What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't marry someone you're not in love with0
Most Helpful Guy
What should you do?
You should break off your engagement with your fiancée, go for the one you love, you still love her. However before you break off your engagement, you need to be sure that your ex-lover still loves you and is willing to take you back. You need to tell you ex the truth that you are engaged now, if you want to get back with her, if you want a second chance you should be honest with her, if she still loves you and is willing to get back with you then you can call off your engagement.0