I dated a guy for 2 and half months. He broke up with me by changing the status on facebook. Then he started sending me mixed messages about getting back together. However, within 1 week i was already replaced. I loved him and still do but how can i be replaced so fast? Within a week he had already had sex with her and met her child. His friends and his boss all said i was very good for him. If that is the case, then why would he throw me away? He broke up with me but he is super mad at me. What is the deal?
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry to say, but 2.5 months is not really long at all... sure it is dating, but I doubt long enough to know you love someone... He likely never really felt the same, but took that time to really find out for sure. I also don't think there needs to be much of a moving on period for such a short relationship...1
Most Helpful Girl
The hardest thing for some people to do is to look at themselves.
Instead of standing back and saying, "What I did was so wrong." Instead they find a reason to justify why their doings was right.
So, this guy is mad at you because it allows comfort for him to feel good about what he did.
I know you loved this guy,
but his actions show that he never really loved you and it was all a lie.
Someone that loves you doesn't operate that way.0