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I don't know what "the no contact rule" means to you. If I break up with someone because it didn't work, whether I was the dumper or the dumpee, we say our goodbyes and then we don't have any more contact, ever. That's what breaking up is all about. If you say that you have broken up but you expect to get back together, you are just playing a silly game with yourself and the other person. Of course you miss them and you still are about them. . . but it didn't work and, if you try it again, you'll get the same result. Getting back together just drags things out and prolongs the inevitable.
So. . . after 30 days, if he hasn't tried to contact you, you don't give up. You give up now! Thirty days from now, you can be dating someone else, someone who may treat you better and with whom you may have more fun.