So last week things got a bit tense and he needed his space, which I gave to him. I had however been noticing little things here and there, like him not doing the sweet things for me like he used to. Well today I got a text from him basically saying how great of a person I was but how we should stop seeing each other because he cannot give me what I need. I am hurt, and i have cried but I accepted things as they were.
I find his actions weird because he was the one talking about the future, gazing into my eyes deeply and asked me to spend the night at his house in his bed. (no sex happened) I then awoke to an empty bed. I asked him and he says it was just "weird" having someone next to him. He also talked about wanting a "permanent" relationship with me. So I am just wondering if it sounds like he had issues with intimacy or perhaps was emotionally unavailable. I just find it strange that he'd do all of this and then bam want to break up.
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I think he freaked himself out a bit. He thought he was ready for the next step but found himself to do it. For him to stop with texting and then try to make leap into intimacy but found out he couldn't was enough to convince him he isn't ready to go beyond casual dating yet. Shame.0