My now ex broke up with me last night because we had a fight. He told me how the day of the fight he liked me a lot and after the fight he doesn't feel it anymore. I don't understand how someone's feelings change in just 1 day. He wanted to remain friends and even when I asked him if he was sure about the break up he hesitated for a long time. Could he just THINK his feelings r gone for me? I don't understand how someone can go from night and day with their feelings. I can understand if you were thinking about it for awhile then pulled the plug but this doesn't make sense. Like honestly we adored each other then got into that fight and he's like "we jjs started dating and already had a fight so I don't think it's gonna work." He even told me before I left how he'd still one day like to see me again but I just left. I don't prolong wounds and try to heal asap. I just don't understand. Will he regret this sudden move?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not sure what is going through his head. But if I put myself in that position I would think that maybe he was hurt by something and took it very personal which is (my) one way to change my feelings about someone. But I'm not sure if it was as drastic of a change since he is still asking to be friends.0
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Most Helpful Girl
No one's feelings change in a day. He probably was thinking about it for a while and just looking for an excuse to bring it up. He started to fall out of love with you for a while now.0