I broke the with my ex at the end of June. I ended it as I wasn't ready for a relationship. I was in a bad relationship previously which ended last November and I met her shortly after my break up. Although nothing happened until February of this year. The bad ex was still contacting me although I never replied.
I knew that I wasn't ready and was confused about a lot of things so I ended it out of the blue. I gave her a lame reason for doing it. I hurt her really badly because she was really happy with me and thought things were going great.
I had some time to myself to get my head sorted out and improve myself. She never contacted me during this time. She deleted me from her facebook but she added me back on when I sent her a request about 6 weeks ago. She didn't delete me from her twitter or Snapchat though! I use Snapchat a lot and put up Snapchat stories which she did follow whilst we weren't contacting each other. She put up stories herself, which she never done ever before. Which I thought unusual. About 4 weeks ago I started to contact her by text. Leaving it a few days or a week between messages she does reply but never initiates contact to me. Her replies have been like her guard is up. I don't blame her for doing that at all! I haven't brought up the relationship and how it ended. I did say it would be good if we be friends. I do want her back but I know that it's going to be hard work and a slow process.
Do you think I have a chance with this girl?
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If you really want her back you should be honest about it and let her know. You should also truly apologize for the hurt you put her trough and after that respect whatever decision she'll take. But try to get her back only if you are 100% sure you want to commit and work hard on the relationship. Otherwise it would be selfish of you to put her through more pain. I think she still has feelings for you since she hasn't completely cut you off already.0