Total NC, including just disappearing out of their lives, no matter who ended the relationship or the circumstances.
- Yes, within a monthVote A
- Yes, after a monthVote B
- Yes, after two monthsVote C
- Yes, after three monthsVote D
- Yes, after 3+ monthsVote E
- Maybe, a lot of silent / anonymous callsVote F
- No, neverVote G
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One of my ex's after everything just decided to cut all contact completely and have never spoken to me again, this is like 3 years now soon I think. I never made any attempts to contact her cause well obviousness. It is in my opinion pretty heartless and cruel, I personally always believed I could be friends with everyone pretty much, certainly someone I loved or loved me. The odd thing tho, she seem to been spying on me and I think in secret she contacted my later girlfriend for some reason, but always sent one message or made a comment then deleted it, one im 100% sure was her about a year after the break up. I have at least maintained a good and healthy friendship with my other ex, which is the thing anyway. It certainly takes two mature people to pull it off.
I know tho however that a guy did this to her once what she did to me, it ruled her life for like 8 years where he chased this asshole who cut her off in a similiar cruel manor. She started sleeping around with a lot of other guys to try and get it over it, to fill the void he created in her. I always found strength in myself that I haven't done the same, but I always found strength in my pains cause I had a pretty tough life before as it is, so at least it makes me proud of myself, that I didn't turn out like she did.4
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