I've been that girl who is usually single but never available for years now.
I've had a few boyfriends and several long term friends with benefits (I'm talking years) and almost always had someone I had feelings for in my heart. I've always had a hard time getting over someone unless I cared for someone else, which makes it hard to date for real. It's like I'm always emotionally hung up on an ex or a friends with benefits that doesn't want me. Although I've been physically single, emotionally its like I've moved from guy to guy to guy with no lucky break.
I'm coming to terms with it, but I feel like heartbreak upon heartbreak has piled up now that I am actually trying to cling to feelings for no one. Does anyone have advice? I have been literally depressed for a couple months over this and I don't want to fall back into the black hole.
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Glad that you're aware of it. You create quite a hell for yourself don't you...Sounds like you need to create something else to think about...Join a club, get a fun hobby and keep yourself busy from feeling sorry for yourself, which, is what it comes down to...You really aren't doing anything different from the rest of us and we can't define ourselves by the guys we go out with that are having the same types of difficulties in their relationships as we are...Be glad you've had those relationships, learn from them and move on...That is all any of us can do...Best of luck. Cheers!0