My boyfriend and I broke up in late July, deciding to just stay friends. I always thought of us as good friends even after the breakup (I never thought of him as an ex boyfriend), but about 3 1/2 weeks ago he told me that he thinks of me as his ex girlfriend. We haven't spoken since until this morning when he texted me, telling me all about his new girlfriend (apparently she's Croatian) - complete with pictures. I didn't make a big deal of it over text, but I cannot tell you how annoyed I was. I'm going to have to see him this weekend at a tennis tournament anyway, but why is he doing this? Why is he suddenly texting me out of nowhere about his new girlfriend after weeks of silence? Could y'all help give me some perspective please?
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There's three possibilities from my point of view: 1. He's trying to make you jealous 2. He genuinely wants to appreciate his new girlfriend with his best friend or 3. He's testing you to see if you wanted to actually be friends or whether you still have feelings for him. I think number 1 is most likely. 2 if he's oblivious. 3 if he's sly.1