My ex broke up with me about 4 weeks ago. It was a long distance by 3 hours. She broke with me because of the distance and emotional disconnect when we where apart. When we broke up she had a few of my shirts and she said she would mail them back to me. She hasn't mailed them back to me yet. She has like 3 of my favorite shirts and she knows that. Why wouldn't she have mailed them back to me yet. I mailed a book of hers back to her that she left at my place last time she came up. What are your thoughts on this? Why wouldn't she have mailed it back yet?