My wife had a 12 month affair, but didn't confess. I found out. She didn't wanna be with the other guy but im wondering if she really loves me or if she's just using me for a comfortable life & security etc.
No matter what she says or I ask will it really be the truth? I know people say talk to her but i feel betrayed, not respected. Dont I deserve better than that?
I havnt spoken to her for 6 weeks now. I feel its upto her to sort her sh*t out. She cheated not me & not once but several times with the same guy.
Im not begging or chasing her thats upto her.
Am I doing the right thing?
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I'm sorry you are going through that. I would tell her you know about the affair. She where she stands now. Talk first, tell her how you feel, allow both doors to be open, then decide later. Personally, if I was ever betrayed I could never continue with that person, especially a year long affair! I would always worry and suspect. That's definitely not a healthy relationship to be in. Know you deserve better.0