I understand him. What would you think if you loved someone and he told you: "I support sexism against women; that's my ideology"? I guess you wouldn't take it good. Well, same applies for us. The only problem is that so many women are openly sexist nowadays that we might as well end up single if we decide to date outside of feminism (I am single partly because of that, you could say). The guy was lucky enough to find a woman who disliked it, so he took the chance. It's natural behavior.
You have to understand that for most of us men feminists are the worst kind of people. By pushing your agenda you are not only shaming us, but also limiting our freedom and entire masculinity. I would never ever date a feminist and I totally understand what your boyfriend did, even if he handled it a bit rough. If you want to be in a relationship I suggest you find a guy that is more feminine and submissive, "he" (or she?) will fit better into your idea of what a man should be like.
You deserved what you got. You are a horrible person. Women like you are the reason the (very few) decent women left are being ignored. If somebody hates you, why the hell would you want to be with them? Oh, you wish all men would die? What if you happened to be with a man that heard that and happened to be a little unstable. Or maybe that statement made him unstable. Then what happens? I don't know. Maybe he feels you are a threat to his life. Maybe at that point he decides to take measures to protect his own life.
You are playing a very dangerous game, so to be honest, so as not to screw up the lives of others, you just need to stay single, and get your ovaries permanently destroyed. You would most definitely abuse any children you had.
" Most men I can care less about, if any of them got shot in the head I wouldn't shed a tear. Life's too short to get hung up on any men. "
- You
The problem is, most women today who wear the "feminist" badge aren't really "feminists" as much as they're misandrists, this is why the term has such a negative connotation. Judging by your posts, it's pretty clear what you are, not sure if this is a troll question or not.
Some people have a perception of feminism as one sidedness of talking about equality while using the "patriarchy" as a boogy man to justify hatred. I'm sorry he left you, but incompatible beliefs are one reason why relationships fail. It's like different religious or political beliefs, people breakup all the time over them. I suppose what he meant by a "real woman" is one who is yielding one who isn't rigid. One who can take as well as give. I hope this helps.
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In another question, you wrote: "Most men I can care less about, if any of them got shot in the head I wouldn't shed a tear. Life's too short to get hung up on any men."
Given your attitude towards men, how exactly is it that you're surprised he'd dump you? That kind of hate filled thinking is common among feminists, so it's no surprise he recognized your hate for what it is and dumped you.
Grow up and fix your damaged beliefs. Until then, you aren't ready for a relationship.
"What in the hell do men want from us? To be like blowup dolls devoid of personalities and flaws, silent sex toys? Is that all men want is sex? I swear, sometimes I hate the entire breed and right now my soul is on fire."
Lol, and you wonder why he called you a men-hating feminist?
no men just want a loving person that doesn´t give them crap for everything based on their gender. that´s what i suppose a "feminist" could do what could deter a guy. not implying, you do that... just saying.
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I'm a feminist too but I think he was right in dumping you. You do have a shitty personality.
Just a guess on my part but it could be that since you started seeing your boyfriend him knowing you're a feminist that somewhere along the line your boyfriend may have encountered some of the negative drawbacks or knows someone else who have that were created by the feminist movement.
I am so sorry. I hate how some men think about feminism. You are strong and you will get through this. Even if you think you're being weak, you will be strong to me. Message me if you need someone to talk to.
Don't be too quick to judge. If you were with a guy who occasionally hated women and blamed them for all sorts of things, you might eventually reach a point of no return. It looks like he saw an exit and took it. Some women have an axe to grind with men and it doesn't look like much fun being with them. I am not saying that's what she is, but I don't believe it's as black and white as she makes it look.
@AleDeEurope I was just trying to make sure she felt okay cause getting dumped is rough. I wasn't saying she is right in hating all men, That's not a true feminist.
If you really want to know why feminists these days get such bad rep you just need to look at yourself. One guy screws you over and you generalize and start dissing and putting us down as a whole.
Okay... I don't know personally but you made it pretty clear in your question that you hate all men. I agree that your boyfriend is sexist if he said "acts like a real woman", but don't sound any better.
Heed your own advice "Most men I can care less about, if any of them got shot in the head I wouldn't shed a tear. Life's too short to get hung up on any men."
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"yes I'm a Feminist, I'm proud of that"
That's justification enough to dump you. Nothing more about you needs to be known.
What's wrong with being proud of believing in equality?
@zell0is0my0name You've never read her posts, have you?
@Mesonfielde : no, I haven't, why?
I understand him. What would you think if you loved someone and he told you: "I support sexism against women; that's my ideology"? I guess you wouldn't take it good. Well, same applies for us. The only problem is that so many women are openly sexist nowadays that we might as well end up single if we decide to date outside of feminism (I am single partly because of that, you could say). The guy was lucky enough to find a woman who disliked it, so he took the chance. It's natural behavior.
You have to understand that for most of us men feminists are the worst kind of people. By pushing your agenda you are not only shaming us, but also limiting our freedom and entire masculinity. I would never ever date a feminist and I totally understand what your boyfriend did, even if he handled it a bit rough. If you want to be in a relationship I suggest you find a guy that is more feminine and submissive, "he" (or she?) will fit better into your idea of what a man should be like.
You deserved what you got. You are a horrible person. Women like you are the reason the (very few) decent women left are being ignored. If somebody hates you, why the hell would you want to be with them?
Oh, you wish all men would die?
What if you happened to be with a man that heard that and happened to be a little unstable. Or maybe that statement made him unstable.
Then what happens? I don't know. Maybe he feels you are a threat to his life. Maybe at that point he decides to take measures to protect his own life.
You are playing a very dangerous game, so to be honest, so as not to screw up the lives of others, you just need to stay single, and get your ovaries permanently destroyed.
You would most definitely abuse any children you had.
stop trying to compare all other guys to your ex boyfriend. that's a huge swing and a miss.
Well, women keep saying that they want to be judged on personality, not looks. I guess it's finally happening!
Shots fired!
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" Most men I can care less about, if any of them got shot in the head I wouldn't shed a tear. Life's too short to get hung up on any men. "
- You
The problem is, most women today who wear the "feminist" badge aren't really "feminists" as much as they're misandrists, this is why the term has such a negative connotation. Judging by your posts, it's pretty clear what you are, not sure if this is a troll question or not.
Some people have a perception of feminism as one sidedness of talking about equality while using the "patriarchy" as a boogy man to justify hatred. I'm sorry he left you, but incompatible beliefs are one reason why relationships fail. It's like different religious or political beliefs, people breakup all the time over them. I suppose what he meant by a "real woman" is one who is yielding one who isn't rigid. One who can take as well as give. I hope this helps.
In another question, you wrote: "Most men I can care less about, if any of them got shot in the head I wouldn't shed a tear. Life's too short to get hung up on any men."
Given your attitude towards men, how exactly is it that you're surprised he'd dump you? That kind of hate filled thinking is common among feminists, so it's no surprise he recognized your hate for what it is and dumped you.
Grow up and fix your damaged beliefs. Until then, you aren't ready for a relationship.
"What in the hell do men want from us? To be like blowup dolls devoid of personalities and flaws, silent sex toys? Is that all men want is sex? I swear, sometimes I hate the entire breed and right now my soul is on fire."
Lol, and you wonder why he called you a men-hating feminist?
no men just want a loving person that doesn´t give them crap for everything based on their gender. that´s what i suppose a "feminist" could do what could deter a guy. not implying, you do that... just saying.
I'm a feminist too but I think he was right in dumping you. You do have a shitty personality.
Just a guess on my part but it could be that since you started seeing your boyfriend him knowing you're a feminist that somewhere along the line your boyfriend may have encountered some of the negative drawbacks or knows someone else who have that were created by the feminist movement.
Your boyfriend has been liberated. 'Tis a joyous day.
I am so sorry. I hate how some men think about feminism. You are strong and you will get through this. Even if you think you're being weak, you will be strong to me. Message me if you need someone to talk to.
Don't be too quick to judge.
If you were with a guy who occasionally hated women and blamed them for all sorts of things, you might eventually reach a point of no return. It looks like he saw an exit and took it. Some women have an axe to grind with men and it doesn't look like much fun being with them.
I am not saying that's what she is, but I don't believe it's as black and white as she makes it look.
@JuicyBrain I don't either but I am a true feminists
How do you expect him to react when she even admitted herself that she sometimes hate men?
@AleDeEurope every woman hates men sometimes. not all men but all men who act *insert very specific action*
Yeah, but she don't just hate one certain type of men, she hates all, that's the difference.
@AleDeEurope well that's her, not true feminists
I know, I wasn't bashing on all feminists, I'm just talking about her.
@AleDeEurope I was just trying to make sure she felt okay cause getting dumped is rough. I wasn't saying she is right in hating all men, That's not a true feminist.
From her vibe and description she needs to get a grip on the reality of how she comes off.
I'd dump you too if I was your boyfriend and you were "feminist" lol anyone woild
If you really want to know why feminists these days get such bad rep you just need to look at yourself. One guy screws you over and you generalize and start dissing and putting us down as a whole.
Okay... I don't know personally but you made it pretty clear in your question that you hate all men. I agree that your boyfriend is sexist if he said "acts like a real woman", but don't sound any better.
*but YOU don't sound any better
FTFY*
@nakedalligator lol thanks
lol, sorry, grammar nazi.
'man hating feminist'
If you are a man hating feminist
He's an idiot for even dating you xD
I don't say that you are a hater. It's just that he made himself sound so stupid there
Heed your own advice "Most men I can care less about, if any of them got shot in the head I wouldn't shed a tear. Life's too short to get hung up on any men."