Girls, Wife wants divorce after 16 years and 3 kids. Says I am her best friend but wants to put herself first. And she sees us being best friends?
What Girls Said 2
First off, I'm sorry that this is happening to you!
I don't know why she feels she has to leave you to put herself first? That makes no sense to me.
If she wasn't getting something out of the marriage she thought she should be getting, she owes it to you to at least talk to you about it and give both of you a chance in my opinion. I don't know the full situation but if it were me I would at least talk to you first.
But I have a hard time leaving people period.
I wouldn't agree to be best friends with her if you know you can't handle it. I know if it were me, I would have a hard time being her 'best friend'. I would be so hurt and just want her to come back :( I don't get how people can do that.
The thing I would do is try to talk to her about it. Maybe there are changes you both can make to have a happier relationship.
If she refuses, you need to lean on family and friends. I hope that you both can work things out.
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