We broke up almost 6 months ago after a really on and off 3 year relationship and it took me this long to finally stop feeling bitter or angry or sad. It wasn't nice to go through but I've let it go and moved on. I decided to contact him simply to clear the air and catch up on his life because I do still care about him so I asked how he was doing, and he never replied.
I sent him one last message expressing that I didn't have any hard feelings that he didn't want to talk and that I wished him the best and he didn't reply to that either. Does he hate me? Is there anything I can do to change his opinion or do I just need to let go of that too?
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Just let it go. You should not have contacted him in the first place, he is an ex, it is in the past now. You can't know what is on his mind about you, and you never could be able to know for sure. So trying to guess is just useless and will make you overthink.
Letting go is not only about getting rid of those hurtful feelings, it is also and mostly about acceptance. Accepting that you won't get the resolutions you want and letting things be this way! If you still want to "clear the air" you have not fully let it go.