The first broken heart is always the most painful?

Because I always though that later you become more resistant but I could be wrong.


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  • The first broken heart is usually the most intense, but not necessarily the most devastating. My first broken heart happened a few days before I turned 19. A lot was going on in my life at the time and my girlfriend was my anchor keeping me grounded. Well, I was her "goy toy" and, five years later, she told me she was fickle. Nonetheless, I was a train wreck and took it hard. I wouldn't be for another 31 months that I would finally get over her and get a new girlfriend a month later when she hit on me.

    However, 10 years later, almost to the day, I was dumped by the girl that I wanted to marry and was deeply in love with. I never really recovered even though I am married to someone else now. Indeed, it's been almost 24 years and I only think this past few weeks do I finally summon the anger necessary to get over my broken heart.

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  • Generally, the first hurts the most because it happens when you are young, you are very idealistic and na├»ve, you have tremendous expectations for what will happen in your relationship, and when it ends, it is devastating. You will never forget it.

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  • It's not an exact science. The most painful can be the first, the last... it depends on how it all happened and how much feelings were involved.

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  • that appears to be true, generally.

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  • Anything is painful only if you let it be.

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  • I certainly hope so because I don't think I could get through it if the next one is worse. I feel so much more guarded now though so I have no idea when the next one will happen.

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  • i feel that way too , depend on person i gues

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  • yes people become stone hearted

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What Girls Said 3

  • Not in my experience. My second heartbreak was so much more devastating than the first. I'm not sure why.. Maybe my first heartbreak wore me down a little, rather than making me tougher. Maybe it's because I actually saw a future with my second love, whereas my first love was young and innocent.

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  • It depends on the love u have for the person. U might meet somoen later who u have a stronger connection with and feel even more in love with... and that will b much harder...

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  • I don't agree. I think it depends on how deep feelings you have for the person breaking your heart. I know that if my boyfriend broke up with me I'd be so much more sad and heartbroken than I was the first time I had a broken heart because I love my boyfriend more than I've ever loved anyone before.

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