Most Helpful Guy
Unti you realize the relationship is over and you deserve better you can't. Yes, it was 8 great years all relationships have ups and downs and take lots and lots of work.
You can see those as 8 great years that made you who you are and move on for the sake of your future. Or you can continue to put more years into this lesson. Keep moving forward and making healthy decisions that give you confidence and will attract the right relationship. Hang in there. Remember the good. Let go of the bad. Look forward. Don't dwell on what's over. You'll be better for it and help others too.
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes you never get over someone, time just helps you to learn to live with the pain. They say time heals pain, but it isn't time which heals you... it's what you do with your time that enables you to move on from the pain.
This is a cliche, but the only way to deal with the hurt and move on, is to keep your mind on things other than him, and keep active and busy.
The pain will be so raw right now and even though your heart is broken... you still love him with all of the little pieces. Your mind can let go easier than your heart. So be patient with yourself. Cry a river , build a bridge , and get over it... by not spending too much on your own missing him and thinking about him.
At the moment you may feel you can't live without him, but your heart is stronger than you imagine. It can be cheated, burned and broken but yet , it still works and you will love again.
One day you will be able to think of the time you shared together ... and smile, instead of breaking down in tears. 💛 xx