Things were a bit bumpy towards the end of the relationship with me and my ex girlfriend. She lost her job, had a lot of personal/family issues, etc. She became depressed and pushed me away and didn't want to see me. This made me panic somewhat and i wanted to see her more and help her anyway I could, but she would just push everyone away. We ended up breaking up and she now says she doesn't want a relationship and she wants to be friends. We hung out after the breakup and things were progressing slowly. Once we started to get close, she claims I'm confusing things and she backed off. i told her I dont want to be just friends and I would have to back off as well and wished her the best. I didn't talk to her for 2 weeks and I just tried to reach out to her yesterday and she won't respond. I sent one text and left it at that. I didn't mention anything about us or the relationship. I just mentioned that i saw a movie on tv that made me think of her and i hope she was doing well. What should I do?
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Give her space.0
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"Space... The final frontier"
I'm going to give you some advice as a brother... You need to let this one go... The more you try the more she's going to lose further respect for you... Salvage what self respect you have left... You sound like a great guy, and believe me when I say I know how much it hurts... But it's time to take a dip down into the waters... feel the pain... And then dry yourself off, get back up on your horse and start ridding again.
Sorry for all of the mixed analogies, but you have to realize that you are worth more then what you are allowing yourself in the present, and if you don't do something about it you're going to make things a hell of a lot worse for yourself in your recovery. If she loves you she will come back around, if not... The right woman for you will!1