Is there any way to lessen your love for someone?

Long story short, I've pretty much given up on the possibility of the girl I like having similar feelings toward me (let alone any girl liking me... but that's for another time). But, the problem is, we are fairly close friends, so I can't simply avoid her, or ignore her. Does anyone have any advice to help me forget my love for her, or to at least help me press my feelings for her to a lesser state?


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    This blog is a very well written piece of advice, with free access to the public, that is written by a GaG member (BobAIR). Please read some articles there and understand that you still have options available to you.

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    Best regards,


    • Alright thanks, I can't read it right now, but do you recommend any specific articles?

    • I'll flip through and pick a few ;D

      In no particular order =)

    • Hey ArtistBboy,

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What Girls Said 1

  • Time. It sucks, but you cannot force yourself to get over someone. In fact, that usually makes it worse, and it'll backfire.

    Find a new hobby, hang out with friends, just keep yourself occupied and try not to contact the person too much. Space is paramount when trying to get over someone. Otherwise, it'll make the situation worse.

    Be honest with the person. Best of luck!


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