Okay so my ex dumped me two months ago after and 6 month relationship. She really loved me, and I really loved her and well still do, in turn I took the break up badly and did very stupid extreme things. She told me things she had never told any other person, like her secrets what has happened in her past. She even told me I'm the only boyfriend she has ever cried in front of which I believe. We broke up because of to much fighting and neither of us trusted the other enough. And well I basically harassed her and repeatedly called and texted up until the point I got a harassment citation from the police. I also got involved with her rebound guys and messed that up for her. Now she wants nothing to do with me and says she hates me and is getting her number changed. While we dated our relationship was in the bliss stage for most of the time. And I was a pretty good boyfriend to her. If that changes anything.
I really need advice. Thank you.
Will time be able to heal this?
Is there a chance she still loves me?
Is there a possibility that I can mend things with her and have another chance?
Most Helpful Girl
I think you pretty much scarred the love ( and any feeling of affection) out of her with your harassment. What you did was wrong, and you need to realize that. You can't just pester a person with your unwanted attentions and harass them obsessively and just hope everything is going to be okay afterward. If you received a citation, that means she is pretty serious about wanting to get you off of her back. Things are over between the two of you, and she wants you out of her life, so please just do that.1
Most Helpful Guy
She's your ex. Who cares?1