I confronted him and we got into a bit of an argument. He got mad at me for "snooping" and said how can I expect him to get over her so quickly when he was so in love with her. He said that he loves me too though and he doesn't want to screw things up with me because he can see how much I love him.
What am I supposed to do? I do love him a lot. I know he isn't over her and that he's very hurt by what he went through and I'm trying really hard to give him his space to get over her and to mourn but I can't help getting frustrated because I want to move things forward with our relationship as I am in my mid 30's and I want more and I want to have a family. I feel like he does love me too but he's sometimes emotionally closed off and doesn't want to talk about getting married.
How long am I supposed to wait for him to get over her? Has anyone else had success with this? Guys do you have some advice on what I can do other than giving him space and letting him know I love him no matter what?