I left my ex due to feeling taken for granted and when I brought that up I was blamed for trying to mess up the relationship. At that point I understood that he was not afraid to lose me. With all feelings for him still in my heart I broke up w/him. He was very passive during the break up and after I contacted him about my stuff, he poured out his heart to me and promised me a whole bunch of things that I knew were BS. Over the next 2 weeks I tried to message him about my stuff and that ended in him blaming me for using him and breaking his heart. I decided to give up on my things and I haven't messaged him in weeks. One time he sent me a message saying that he missed me and wished that things could have been different. I deleted that message w/no response. Last week he messaged one word messages on FB and through text. I did the same thing and deleted the messages w/out a response. What is he getting at? Does he hope I come running back to him?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes he does and he's a jerk for not giving your things back. I think its more of a "I'm going to punish you for breaking up with me" type thing0
Most Helpful Girl
He took you for granted and now just wants you to stroke his ego, the way you did when you put all the effort into it without him having to lift a single finger. Keep ignoring his messages, he'll get tired of trying to get a response from you at some point. If not, feel free to block him.0