Most Helpful Guy
Well, that's really sad that a cancer man can do that to you, because that's highly unlikely and it rarely ever happens, a cancer man doing this is an exception, however you're right he is the one who did the damage. I don't think he even thinks about you, I doubt he ever loved you because if he did he wouldn't have cheated on you.
Most Helpful Girl
Hmm.. He sounds like he is being a total jerk, and in denial of what happened. If he really isn't concerned about what he put you through, then if I were you, I wouldn't be concerned about him not talking to you right now. He is abusing you as far as I am concerned. Sadly, he may have been in a relationship with you that he was unhappy with for some time and simply does not have any idea of what to even say to you over the situation. He's probably mad and upset at the same time. Since you have kids together, I would give him time and just wait it out.