Just found out that she has had sex with some of her male friends in the past before we dated. I feel like a fool since I've met these guys. I feel like I've been decieved she should have told me this before i ever met these guys.
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah it was dumb. You were with her for two years and this is a pretty insignificant thing to throw that away for. If it upset you, the mature thing would be for you guys to work it out.
Besides, what did you expect her to say? "Hey, these guys you're about to meet - well, I had sex with them before." That sounds silly. I can't imagine just saying that out of the blue. Also, what would it have changed? Would you have acted differently around her guy friends? Turned into a jealous and possessive boyfriend who restricts who she sees and talks to?
I would say she dodged a bullet here. Good for her.1
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Most Helpful Guy
ehhhh that's tricky. i think that if she fucked theses guys and she still hangs out with them, its a problem. First off, that's weird that she can stand there with the guy she fucked and you at the same time. I would never allow them to be friends. that is something she should have kept to herself. What if you fucked one of her friends in the past and you guys all hung out?1