Boyfriend of 2 months broke up with me out of the blue. One minute everything is going well and we're making plans and the next minute he thinks we don't have similar interests? There was no warning signs that he was going to break up. I'm so confused. He even said he doesn't want to break up but it's something he has to do? what the hell?
Then he starts giving all these reasons that we shouldn't stay together, like he's too busy for a girlfriend right now or he's not ready so before we get too attached he wanted to break up? It makes no sense. He keeps insisting he does still like me and he even said he wish he could have stayed with me so why would he break up?
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Mostly with break ups there's actually no warning signs. You'd be surprised how often this happens. The general consensus is that your ex has likely thought about the possibility and there might have been confusion from his side for quite some time but then the constant back and forth of "should I break up or not" becomes too much and then they just go for it. I wouldn't fall for any of his excuses for not being with you. Mostly it's just a cover up to hide the truth that they just simply lost their feelings which is a natural thing that happens in relationships sometimes.0