Is it wrong for me to feel upset that my ex is talking to his ex?
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You're doing the right thing xx I know it's hard. I'm going through something very similar myself. But you're proving that you were willing to change for the sake of the relationship. All he's proving is that he's too immature and doesn't want to change. He wants both you and his ex, and all you're currently doing is reinforcing his behaviour.
I know it's hard but i think you need to take a stand and respect yourself. Don't give him anymore chances, you've given him plenty. If you can't trust him, after all this effort you're making. Do you want to honestly spend the rest of your life worrying if he's going to go off with another woman? You love him deeply, but you deserve to be loved just as deeply back.
I honestly believe from everything you've said that he doesn't deserve you. Ignore his attempts at contact for at least a month. Ignore his calls, ignore his texts, do not reply. Show him what life is like without you. If he doesn't realize what an amazing person you are, you need to find someone who will.
You need to do everything to make yourself happy, and make new friends, take up a new hobby, learn a new language. Keep yourself so busy you won't have time to think about him.
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well... he is your ex, so you really shouldn't care. but its not wrong that you do care. you still have some feelings stewing for him inside you. its not that uncommon. just dont let it get to you.0
its normal to feel upset0
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