Okay, so my ex broke up with me after our 1 year ann. because he didn't feel a connection. That was the second time together. I thought everything was going great so I didn't expect it coming. When he asked for a second chance I was so happy. We were both happy. If he comes back should I give him a third chance?
Is the third time always a charm?
What Guys Said 1
Honestly I cannot tell you what to do and what not to do, however I can say that it seams he has hurt you more then once in the past which is not good for your self esteem or yourself PERIOD! I know you are young and when I say that I mean no offense at all. I am saying that I understand how a decision like this might be difficult for you. If I were in your shoes I would personally try to move on. Live life laugh with friends as I have said before. It really would be no surprise to me at all if he were to come back and ask for a second chance it would also be no surprise to me if he had hurt you again. I know that this may come across as kind of a selfish thing to do but (FOCUS ON YOU) it's not selfish it's wise. I can tell that you are a very smart individual so why not find someone who wants to be with you just as much as you want to be with them. You have a long life ahead of you so don't rush anything. Take your time and again like I said before if you find a guy you like take it slow make him wait for you if he waits then he cares if not then it's his loss not yours. I can personally tell you that there is a thousand guys out there that would love a chance with a girl like yourself! :-)0
What Girls Said 1
me personally no everyone is entiled to a second chance and if he comes back a third time you need to say no as he is just playing games with you.0
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