She told me she cares for me & all but she wasn't ready to let her guard down for me because she was afraid I would hurt her like she is been in the past & she just needed time. I've known her for about a year now & we dont see each other because she is in a different state from me. We were planing on me visiting her soon. Lately I was trying to get more close to her & all she is done been turn me down & that really hurt me because I feel like she just might just want me as a friend like sometimes when we would have an argument over how she feels about me she would say that is best if we just ended up as friends because I'm forcing our relationship. I just couldnt do it anymore not being sure if she would ever feel what I do for her or if she ever did. Should I just move on or should I call her? because we argued about it all night yesterday until we broke up & she blocked me. I need some advice.
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You show much affection towards her but she doesn't do the same, Because she's been hurt already in the past. Okay, it happens to girls. Once they get hurt they always think that they'r never gonna be happy again with another guy because they think that this new boyfriend will hurt them in the same way as their ex's did. They feel like this new guy will break their trust and leave them sometimes girls need time to move on from their past relationships, it's hard for them to heal themselves.
i can understand how you'r feeling right now but i think she's broken inside and she's just trying to push you away, Maybe she's testing you. she's testing whether you'll call her, talk to her, find ways to communicate with her or not. Girls do that Girls always test a guy they do lots of things to test a guy because they want to know how much feelings the guys got for them. I think you should call her, talk to her nicely ask her the reason that why she is being like this? tell her you think a lot about her and you do love her make her trust you so that she can learn to move on from her past relationship.
Try again, maybe she will say everything what's in her heart. call her again and talk to her.1
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