Most Helpful Guy
6 to 12 months from now, you will look back at your breakup with a smile. I feel your disdain and jealousy, understandably so.
These negative emotions would only hold you back instead of moving you away from what has been a tormenting relationship.
You may think to do the following things:
Step 1: Feel the hurtful feelings. It doesn't matter if it takes a day, week or month. Do not force away your thoughts from them.
Step 2: Accept the person is no longer with you, and would never come. Accept the heartbreak emotions.
Step 3: Focus on the good memories this person brought to your life. It's important not to dwell on the negatives otherwise that could cause you to relapse to the anger phase.
Step 4: Focus on things you would have loved more to experience from this person.
Step 5: Remove items about him that may cause you to deny there's no hope with thus guy.
Step 6: Set important activities to do daily. Focus on completing them. Activities focus your mind on positive emotions.
Step 7: Remember something good is coming to you.
Step 8: Let time be your best friend.1
Most Helpful Girl
It probably won't work out if they are living in poverty.
You should worry about yourself first now. He sounds like a violent person and isn't safe to be around with.0