1. Has this taught her a lesson/consequencies that she can't treat people this way? So she will improve & be better for someone else whereas I've lost her?
2. Will my actions show her I have self-respect & that I won't just forgive her & take her back like a doormat or will she just not care?
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1) Whether she learns a lesson and decides to change for the better is up to her. Not your problem. In general, though, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2) Your actions showed that you have self-respect, and that you're not willing to be a doormat. Whether she cares is not your concern; she's not in your life anymore, nor should she be.1