recently one of my ex's reappeared , were not like back together or anything i just ran into her one night and we talked but i got the feeling she had missed me and that there might be a chance to reconnect. but there is a lot of things i have an issue with. one is that i suspect her number of sexual partners has increased significantly from the time we originally meet. i know she was in a rebound relationship for a while after we broke up and that she had likely been with him sexually , but i suspect there has been other guys as she went to a lot of bars and parties and often drank a lot. she also spent the most recent summer out west working at a hotel and i have no clue what she was doing out there , she was there with one of her gf's but i suspect strongly there were some sexual hook ups during her time away. well we were not together when any of this happened it bothers me to think of what she might of been up to some nights and it makes me wonder what kind of girl she has become at this stage of her life. she had been a fairly nice girl when she was younger but all the drinking really brought out a different side of her
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Personally I wouldn't worry about that too much, my ex ( Now current ) slept with quite a few other women while we were apart, all it did was make him realize how much he missed me and needed me.
If you still have concerns about this then be up and honest with her, and talk to her about it, girls ALWAYS love honesty even if it's about this kind of stuff.
She may be a bit mad or annoyed at first, but it's better than lying and losing her trust.0