I HAVE tried breaking up with him before, but he just started crying and begged me to stay. Then he said that he'd cut himself or kill himself or something.
I know he might be manipulating me into staying with him, but I just don't want to be or feel responsible of him doing something to himself...
Im just not happy anymore...
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God this is allways tough.
OK so let me give a small history on my personal experience with this. I myslef have suffered form depression and use to self harm...I dated someone who somtimes cutted..and was verryyy depressed and I feared suicidle. I broke up with them but made sure to keep an eye on them and have my friends tell me how my ex was doing. it turned out fine. My most recent ex use to be suicidle and depressed...use to do some drugs and stuff. I was very scared he'd start drinking agaian and doing drugs and just f***ing up...I needed ot break up with him (not for those reasons) and I was very scared to...i thought he'd relapse and id blame myslef. My friend told me shed be there for me and to not put it all on my slef...i can't carry that on my back. I broke up with him politley. I told him I was very sorry and that this just wasn't working for me ..that I would like to be friends. I kept an eye on him and am friends with his brother...he's doing fine.
if you are really worried talk to one of his close friends right before..and tell him that you care about this guy but its not going to workout and that maybe he should have someone keep an eye on him after you breakup with him.
hope my advice helped0