Guys, let's assume you dated a girl for a while that you fell in love with. Thought she was "the one." Seriously, you LOVED her. Unfortunately, the relationship did not last (it ended on a bad note) but agreed to remain friends even though y'all stopped all contact. You are still friends with her on social media. Though you have a new girlfriend, would you ever check out her profile or read her stuff on your newsfeed? If so, how often? And why would you set your privacy settings to where she cannot see any activity but not delete her as friend? She was a great girl, you don't hold s grudge.
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I live with one of my exes (room mates, 2 years between breakup and reconnecting as friends), but the other (more) serious ex I check her profile every few months on average... She's not very active on social media but it's nice to kinda see what she's up to. We ended on good terms, she's with a guy now and getting married. She seems happy and he appears to take good care of her, so I'm happy for them. I guess nostalgia is what brings me back, a little bit of "What if..." thinking, and just curiosity to see what she's up to.
I wouldn't (and have never) change my privacy settings to prevent an ex from seeing my profile feed. Fortunately my serious relationships have all ended on good terms, I've got nothing to hide.0