Guys, After break up with a hot ex girlfriend... Brokenhearted still (been like 2 months now) by the way. What do you do?
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It all comes down to how the breakup went, did she break from you or you break from her? Do you want to get back together? These are the questions that help dictate which direction you need to move in. After splitting from someone you had deep feelings for, moving on isn't as easy as reading about it or hearing about it. But it is something that needs to happen or not happen (I'll explain). If you need to move on because she dumped you and you have no chance, or you dumped her because there was something seriously wrong with the relationship, it's really important to focus on moving on. Work on yourself, take some you time, then get back out there and date again. However, it's not always the only option of walking away. Sometimes it's good to give it some time and try to turn it around. I don't know if you gave up or she gave up, but if you want to try again, after two months if she's still single, you might want to try to reopen a channel of communication. I'm currently trying to get back with my own ex, and it is a difficult road. So I warn you of the emotional pains you will suffer if you try to go back. Mostly, after a break up, I try to just go with which options seem right because you can't hide from your feelings or heart. Do what feels right and if it doesn't work out, at least you did what you felt was right.1
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