My first husband dumped me and I think I keep doing it just so I can be the one to dump first.
How do I stop doing this? And will he leave me for good if I don't stop?
Most Helpful Guy
I would have left you alone after the first time. Eventually he'll get tired of it.
Most Helpful Girl
It has surely become what I call here as a "Full problem pattern" and now that it has Started, old habits are hard to Break... And promises in turn to Make.
You need to cut yourself Off from the past that wasn't a blast, and focus on someone who seems to love you unconditionally and always seems to take you back at the drop of a hat.
However, every patient Jobe has his breaking point, and love or Not, he will one day that you are no Longer... Hot.
You definitely have issues and I believe if he did one time call your bluff and Not go back, this would be the One cold thing to make you Stop and Learn from this little lesson in life that you can Dump but someone may not Always... Jump.
Good luck. xx