When someone breaks up with you that you loved and were together awhile... typically how long do you hold the torch for? And have you ever gone cold/refused to meet up even though you still had feelings for them? What would it take for you to want to see them again?
What does an ex have to do to get you back?
What Guys Said 2
Typically if she broke up with me, I'm done and out immediately and I make no effort to reconnect even if I still had feelings. The only way I would get back together was if I thought the relationship was working before the break and she was able to convince me that she had figured out what she wanted and would be able to progress in the relationship. But given that I don't connect and actually stay away from my ex, the chances of that are slim, very slim.
If it was something I did wrong that caused her to break up with me, I'd be looking at a real ling long time before I'd think of getting back together, like 1+ year.0
Depends on how the break up went. One ex broke up with me twice. She was civil and apologetic both times. We had amazing chemistry. I would take her back but we must discuss some changes. It would not take much.
The other ex burned that bridge then nuked the site several times over. Not a single apology after everything she did and said. Its super unlikely for me to reconnect with her again. Even if I did my friends and family won't welcome her.
Both these women need to grow up and change. I do too.0
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