There is a guy that likes me, he wants to be with me but I dont feel the same way, I am still sad about my boyfriend because we just broke up, but I think being with this guy would be a good distraction for me because I dont want to be alone. what do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
You can hang out with him as friends but tell him your just friends. Don't lead him on a let him think your something your not. cuz it's not fair to him1
Most Helpful Girl
Personally, i would never take someone elses heart while i'm still picking up the pieces of my own. It would be unfair to the guy , and it would hurt you more in the long- term. I like to give myself time to heal before i start dating other guys.
It would be best to be on your own for a while, rather placing your happiness in someone elses hands. Once they've gone then so is your happiness. Then you are left alone again.
If you spend time on your own, you become stronger as a person, and mature emotionally. Then when you meet a guy he will not be responsible for your happiness... you will be. Therefore, you won't fall to pieces if you go through any future breaks-ups.0