I dated a girl for like a month we had a falling out. She stopped texting me, and I didn't really care that she stopped. Now she is avoiding me everywhere I go! I don't know why she avoids makes me feel uncomfortable, but prior to dating the two of us were good friends. I would or she would text eachother every day over the span of like 3 months. Now dead silence. I would still like to be friends with her, but everyone says "you can't be friends with your exe!" I don't want her to be that person that when I see her at the grocery store I just have to hide or act like I don't know her. I would like to catch up with and see how things are going! I would like to still be her friend! Any advice?
- can't be friendsVote A
- can be friends just talk to her and askVote B
- Depends on circumstancesVote C
Most Helpful Girl
It can be difficult being friends with an ex. If either of you still has feelings towards each other then it would be too painful to remain friends. Especially if one of you starts a new relationship. There's nothing more painful than watching someone who used to love you... love someone ele.
Even if you are both totally over each other it can become complicated when one of you starts a relationship. A lot of peoole feel emotionally unsafe if their SO is still friends with an ex, it can cause a lot of mistrust and arguments
Personally , i believe if two people can remain friends after a break- up... they were never in love or still are0
Most Helpful Guy
really depends on the circumstances. i find i usually stay friends until we start dating other people.0