I dated a girl for like a month we had a falling out. She stopped texting me, and I didn't really care that she stopped. Now she is avoiding me everywhere I go! I don't know why she avoids makes me feel uncomfortable, but prior to dating the two of us were good friends. I would or she would text eachother every day over the span of like 3 months. Now dead silence. I would still like to be friends with her, but everyone says "you can't be friends with your exe!" I don't want her to be that person that when I see her at the grocery store I just have to hide or act like I don't know her. I would like to catch up with and see how things are going! I would like to still be her friend! Any advice?
- can't be friendsVote A
- can be friends just talk to her and askVote B
- Depends on circumstancesVote C
Most Helpful Girl
Yes if you are totally fine if they don't answer you, if they sometimes don't initiate contact, if you two don't talk for months and ultimately if you would want them to find someone awesome and marry them while you congraturating them. Like normal friends do. So, can you?0
Most Helpful Guy
really depends on the circumstances. i find i usually stay friends until we start dating other people.0