what do I do? I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months, and he went completely insane. I was his first love and we will not accept the break up. he is harassing me with emails, phone calls, IMs to take him back. he was hysterically crying when I answered the phone. I do not want to be in a relationship, but I also don't want to be the cause of his death. I did love him, but the love is now gone. he was all upset on the phone and then he called me a "f***ing heartless bitch!" so what should I do? stay friends with him? talk to him in person? am I expecting people to hate me? because he told me if I ever broke up with him, he wouldn't do anything to hurt me.
he is telling me I cannot leave him, and he WILL NOT let me go. now I'm scared because he's telling me when my problems are resolved, he's coming back no matter what!
okay, happy update! he is accepting the friendship, and he said that we will redirect our love into the friendship so it will be one that lasts.