what do I do? I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months, and he went completely insane. I was his first love and we will not accept the break up. he is harassing me with emails, phone calls, IMs to take him back. he was hysterically crying when I answered the phone. I do not want to be in a relationship, but I also don't want to be the cause of his death. I did love him, but the love is now gone. he was all upset on the phone and then he called me a "f***ing heartless bitch!" so what should I do? stay friends with him? talk to him in person? am I expecting people to hate me? because he told me if I ever broke up with him, he wouldn't do anything to hurt me.
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I understand him. If it weren't for the fact that I know it would drive my ex insane, I'd be phoning her every 5 minutes and begging her back. But I'm trying to play cool, make no contact and see if she comes back. I still don't understand though, how can you just fall out of love? She said the same to me, but there must still be love there but maybe she just got bored?
I do feel it's a bit heartless to not try and make it work... It's my first love too and I'm fearing I'll never get her back and in 15 years time I'll be referring to her as "the one who got away." But every girl's different so... I'm not expecting her to be like you and never want to go back. I want her back and I don't know what to do -.-0
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