I dated a girl for like a month, and I treated her poorly because I was stressed out (my best became extremely sick and was hospitalized). She stopped texting me and when my friend recovered I told him about the situation. He called me an asshole for the way I treated her. So one day I talked her and apologized and explained the situation to her. She accepted my apology and said she would have done the same. But now she avoids and ignores me. I don't want to date her anymore (probably couldn't if i wanted to), but we were good friends. She accepted my apology (it was via text though), but she still ignores and avoids me. I just want us to be friends again. Why does she avoid me when she accepted my apology, and said she understood why I did what I did?
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What you did, even if influenced by situational stress, hurt her. She did what she felt was necessary - she accepted your apology - to avoid leaving things on a sour note, but this doesn't mean that she wants to (or is ready to) become friendly with you again.0