Bit of background: Me and my ex were only together 3 months (not a long time, I know) but it was a very intense relationship. He was my first love, first serious boyfriend, first everything. I was the happiest I'd ever been in my life when I was with him. He broke up with me suddenly, completely out of the blue. He couldn't handle having a relationship and doing extremely well in college at the same time, so he had to let me go. I was absolutely heartbroken. He wanted to still stay friends, but I rejected because I was so hurt.
So since then, I've been with two other guys and I could have happily said I was over my ex. My best friend and my ex were talking during the week (she used to live with him) and he basically told her that he still has feelings for me.
I wish she had never told me this because now I feel all the hard work I've done trying to get over him has been undone. I'm so confused about what to feel now. He was my first love and I think I'll always have feelings for him, but I don't ever want to be as heartbroken as I was ever again.
Has anyone been in this situation before? Can someone please give me some advice?
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Don't let him mess with your head anymore. At this point, honesty and communication MUST enter the picture for BOTH of you. He has feelings, but what will do about those feelings? Does he want to get back with you, make things exclusive? Keep you on a string and jerk you around? You need to know BEFORE you make any choices or decisions about him.0