My boyfriend dumped me after 9 months due to some insecurities and me hurting him. We both utually agreed that I'm not ready for a relationship right now. He's said several times that w might work out in the future and he's willing to give it a try. He's a very honest person. What are the chances of us getting back together in 3-6 months time?
Most Helpful Guy
When he said "in the future" I believe he meant years down the line. It sounds like he's burned out or maybe sick of you (not a good sign if you've only been together for 9 months). I think for now he's most likely looking if there's a better option out there and said that because he doesn't want to burn bridges with you.0
Most Helpful Girl
In this case I'd assume maybe was a polite way of saying never. When someone has insecurities and they'be been been hurt by the one person they trusted not to hurt them , then the hurt usually stays with them.
Unless he deals with his insecurities he will never be emotionally strong enough to help make the relationship work a second time around. It would be pointless trying again if you go back into the relationship without improving0
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