will he see the error of his ways and come back.
He says he doesn't love me any more and i recently caught him talking for 3 and a half hours to a girl coworker (who is also separated)
he hasnever once regretted leaving or wanted to come back
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Pokey man didn't do it, lol. He was just waiting for any excuse to arise for him to run out the door to pursue this other woman.
Sorry for your loss I hope you can move on faster just knowing that this was bound to happen anyway. Nothing you did or didn't do to cause this potential divorce. No matter what he says. It takes a man to be a husband of faithful devotion regardless of issues and or speed bumps in a relationship.
that plain ass cruelty it took to not support you through your loss and to find an excuse as lame as buy a kids toy to be the boiling over point. is absolutely ridiculous. He was just waiting for this and the timing of your fathers passing just delayed it, wow he must be thinking of what a saint he is to wait 5 weeks. That should be enough time for you to heal.
please do yourself a favor forget what this ass is doing and who with. Cut this dude out of your life completely. this is nothing you want back in your life.
You are going to need to accept that you are now divorced in your mind and soul.
You are going to go through a long process and I pray it doesn't get too messy. Regardless of what obstacles are ahead you are far better off cleaning your mind and heart of this person to someday get to place of complete security and inner love for yourself with the help of your Creator.