I'm 25, and five months pregnant now. I was in a relationship for a year with a guy who seemed decent but who turned out to be a selfish creep. When I got pregnant he didn't want the baby at all and treated me awfully about it..pushing for abortion and treating me like I was nothing all of a sudden. It t was obvious he was just using me. He thought he couldn't have kids...well that's what he told me...ladies never believe that btw! Ever!
Anyway I found the break up so hard, being pregnant, on my own...seeing my stomach grow..I cried myself to sleep most nights..
But now I feel stronger..I'm trying to get everything in place so I can give the baby the best start ..
Haven't heard from my ex in months..he just doesn't care..he said he wants me to ring him after the baby is born (the day it's born) but I really don't see why I should...I know he's the father ...but what kind of father...he wanted the baby aborted for god's sake...
I know I'm gonna get people defending him and saying of course you have to tell him ..but I have been through a lot and he got to walk away and get on with his life as normal...
Just like to know what girls especially would do if you were in my situation.
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-Couples should agree on what to do if contraception fails before having sex.
Lots of bad communication here.
You're angry at him about the abortion demand. You could have known that by talking about the subject beforehand. He might have feel trapped into marriage.
-If he's convinced (rightly or wrongly) he's sterile, he will suspect (rightly or wrongly) that there was another guy somewhere.
-Legally, the kid is entitled to alimony from the father, so his demand might cost him a lot of $.
-It may also be a way to get you back. (did he walk out on you or did you dump him?)