Most Helpful Guy
Sorry man, break ups are tough and emotionally taxing. Personally i was so emotionally drained after my last break up and what helped me get through it was i set out projects to get me busy and productive. My life consisted of these things for about 6 months after i broke up:
5am - 6:30 am = crossfit (gym)
8am-5pm = work
5-7pm = shower, eat
Saturday: 9am - 11pm crossfit
Saturday --> Sunday = remodel my office room.
sprinkle in time to figure out my new career path while mtn biking / tennis.
I just made my life "busy" doing things i felt are positive things for me.
Break ups are so difficult because there's so many questions that fill your head as far as "what's right, was he the one? did i mess up? did i quit? should i hate him? how do i move on?" Your self esteem takes a toll and it's all no fun but:
i know that my office room needs updating, and i know for a fact exercise is a good thing.
This is what helped me.2
Most Helpful Girl
Don't think you life is bad, it's pretty good compared to mine, you're healthy, no traumatic experiences, no pain that makes it difficult for you to breath. You just need to build confidence, work on your personality to make some new friends, there are places you can go to find new friends. Break ups are painful, but we all go through that, so there are more people that can tell you about, google it. Believe me, i wish i had your life.0