I caught my boyfriend kissing another girl, so I told him it was over and ignored all his calls and texts. On one of those texts, he said I was wrong for just breaking things off when we haven't talked about the situation.
I'm done with him because I told him when we first got together that if you cheat I'm gone. I've never cheated on him.
Is I'm wrong for not trying to talk things out?
Most Helpful Guy
He cheated on you. You really don't owe him shit.
What could he have said, anyway?
"I wasn't really cheating, I was just... inspecting that girl's tonsils... with my tongue!"
"It was... it was an optical illusion!!"
"I did it for us! Because... it was... you... Urm... Nevermind."
"It wasn't really me! It was my long lost twin brother!"
Most Helpful Girl
Of course it's okay. If you care about your relationship with someone, you shouldn't cheat on them. His actions WERE the explanation. If YOU want to talk about things and try to work it out or get closure, that's up to you, but what you did was well within your rights.0