she is the one who broke up.. after that 1 week i followed the no contact rule.. then one day i texted her " good night" i got a call from her immediately... i was so happy.. i mether the next day and convinced her that "we dont need to love.. lets talk for days ( not as friends) after few months we will see what happens... " but then it has been 4 or 5 days... im the one who is always initating contact.. she doesn't even have interest to speak with me.. when i asked her the reason for avoiding me she replied " if i speak either you will get hurt or i will, so i have no other option" even now only after me texting she will reply... she is a good person and i can understand she is feeling pity for me.. Initially i thought she was giving me a second chance.. but now i dont feel the same... can anyone please give me your advice... i really dont want to miss her in my life
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes a person's silence is their loudest cry, so if she is ignoring you it's probably because she is hurting. Break-ups are painful even for the one who ended it.
If she wants you to be part of her life then she'll make an obvious effort to put you in it... you shouldn't have to" fight" for a place.
Personally, I believe you have to distance yourself from some people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't , then you know where you stand. Sometimes you just have to accept what you can't change... no matter how hard it is. If you don't then you will just become an emotional wreck, and it'll prevent you being happy in the long- term. 💟0
Most Helpful Guy
you are getting into that icky pathetic stage that will not look good for you in her eyes. Man up , It is time to wake up and see what we all see. IT'S OVER !
ok? Forget about her she will not be coming back to you.
You need to work on yourself and be comfortable being by yourself and gain some self respect that you give up little by little with every thought of her , every time you eagerly reach out to her and pathetically manipulate your mind about the truth.
please man for the sake of all the men , do not act like this anymore.1