I've been dating a girl for a couple of months. We had a fight and she's told me twice that it was over, not out of anger, just out of her not being ready for a relationship. And yet, she still texts me, telling me she's sad, she missed hearing from me, asking about my day, basically like nothing happened.
We did not know each other before we started dating, and we are not likely to see each other very often at all if we break up. I *told* her I was really hurt, but have not been acting like it's affected me. Is she not quite sure of her decision? Is she trying to make me fight for her? Is she testing me? Or is she checking up to see whether I'm okay (she would be justified in not caring whether I'm okay)?
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In my opinion she likes you, but doesn't love you. She is keeping you around because she is emotionally damaged or unstable and you are her source of feel good feelings. You care and attention are something she needs, so that is why she will continue texting you. She wants YOU to still like her and make her feel good about herself.0
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