Since this summer my ex boyfriend started contacting me again 2 years after the breakup via Skype chat. I was so surprised but we just write to each other really normal bur cordial. But since 2 weeks ago he started saying that he remembers how beautiful I am to him or something similar like that.
Last week we were also chatting and before he went offline he wrote me "bye love you" which made me a heart attack.
Then I asked him what he means and he would answer me "that's completely normal. Can't someone say that?"
For me personally, "love" is a strong word and cannot be used or taken lightly. I explained also to him that I wouldn't use that word unless I really mean it. However he remains silent; no answer.
I know this is just a little ridiculous thing but I am so shocked how he thinks that saying something like that is "normal".
Can anybody relate to what he thinks/says? I would love to get an idea what's going on in his head.
Thank you so much.
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There are different types of love. He could have meant that he loves you because you left an imprint on his heart and his life, and always will, not that he's in love with you.
Or maybe it was a hail mary to get back together and see how you responded. When you didn't respond in a way that he perceived to mean that you'd be open to getting back together, he backed off.